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Looking Back, Looking Forward - HLH 2021 Review and 2022 Plans
In this blog article:
HLH 2021 review
MasterMind Group 2021 Learning Segment : RCSI : The Science of Happiness & Health
MasterMind Group 2022 opportunity
A funny True story
In this blog article:
HLH 2021 review
MasterMind Group 2021 Learning Segment : RCSI : The Science of Happiness & Health
MasterMind Group 2022 opportunity
A funny True story
Many of the HLH activities, events, projects and organisations during 2021
As part of Looking Back, Looking Forward (LBLF) Workshop
I have done a Happy Life Habits (HLH) 2021 Review. I love looking back and seeing what has been experienced during the year, lessons learnt, changes made and savour the positive times. I had forgotten many of the experiences in the first half of the year. Going through this process with the workbook was positive, energising, clarifying and helped show some of the themes. I have also made exciting plans for the forthcoming year.
Why? Our Mission:
Positively Impacting Happiness & Well-Being Levels so that individuals, groups, communities and companies can engage with life in a happier, kinder, effective & more meaningful way for the greater good.
How in 2021?
By delivering and sharing various events, activities, training, projects, ideas and experiences which included:
Gratitude & Happiness :
90 Days of Gratitude & Journal Habit Immersion Training Course (3 X 1 month courses)
Thanksgiving Happiness Booster
Gratitude Journaling for Happiness for Mind In Enfield & Barnet (2 x 3 hour workshops)
Numerous Happiness Journals sold/gifted
18 Inspiration Point Podcasts of 1 hour each (12 consecutive weeks for series 2 & 3 during Lockdown)
One series was dedicated to Women, Mothers Day and International Women's Day
Celebrated International Day of Happiness
Using the Wonder platform and having a variety of speakers, coaches, therapists, practitioners share in zones for Laughter, Relaxation, dealing with loss and conversations
Talk at Healing Our Earth
6 MasterMind Group sessions
Learning & Brainstorming solutions
Learning : 10 modules on The Science of Health and Happiness by RSCI
Mental Health : Support during all of May
Happiness Boosters
Daily reflective questions in FB group
Daily release of video series during MHAW in website, LinkedIn, HLH Community, Asian Parents Club, Oshwal Connect and Covid 19 Mental Health Support
Talks on MH - APC x 2
Happiness Boosters x2
Hosting a 21 Day Simple Living Challenge
Positive Grief:
100 mins talk at Shishukunj Bethak - at Bhavan, live streamed on Zoom and recorded
Recording made into smaller bite sized videos and shared on website, FB during National Grief Awareness Week
Talk on Positive Grief given in Gujarati at Shishukunj Anandkunj for elderly audience
Positive Grief and Gratitude shared at Living Bridge Conversations with Tony Patti - Iglobal News
Talks on Science of Happiness, Gratitude, Mental Health, Grief, The Role of Effective Self care in Positive Leadership, Habits for:
Xerox The Women’s Alliance
Iglobal iWellness Show,
iRadio Podcast with Tony Patti
Living Bridge Conversations
Shishukunj (x2)
Shrimad Rajchandra Dharampur Mission Wellness Series
Healing Our Earth (International Day of Happiness)
Shared through various articles, blog posts etc on Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram, YouTube, WhatsApp and the HLH website.
Training/Learning undertaken
Mental Health First Aid & Mental Health Advocacy in the Workplace Level 2 Certification
6 weeks PQ Coaching Program
10 Module RSCI The Science of Happiness & Health
Various Bob Proctor, Robin Sharma and other trainings
Results: How many people did we Positively Impact their Happiness & Wellbeing Levels?
We have no idea. It’s not something we can measure.
Were you one?
One thing I know for sure is that one person did have a positive impact on their happiness and wellbeing levels from each and every one of these events, activities, training, projects, ideas and experiences. And that’s me! Thank you for the opportunities, support, encouragement, feedback and referrals.
Register here Happy Life Habits MMG 2022
MasterMind Group Learning Segment : RCSI : The Science of Happiness & Health
As part of the monthly MasterMind Group (MMG) we have a learning segment and a brain problem solving segment. For the learning segment we have been doing the RSCI : The Science of Happiness & Health Course. In the original course there were 25,000 people registered on it.
I had details about the course shared with me, looked at it, loved it and shared the opportunity with the MMG.
In the MMG we have worked through the 10 module curriculum taking 2-3 videos each month, watching them in our own time, making notes and then sharing them together at the MMG meeting.
I loved it as it resonated with what I learn and share drawing upon teachings from :
Stephen Covey
Viktor Frankl
Carol Dweck
Sonya Lyubomirsky
Martin Seligman
Barbara Fredrickson
Mihaly Csiksentmihalyi
Kristen Neff
James Clear
Charles Duhigg
The course shares these concepts on Increasing our Health and Happiness:
Understanding PERMA
Develop a Growth Mindset
Develop our Optimism
Understand mind-body relationships
Practising Mindfulness Meditation
Learning from the Blue Zones
Understanding our meaning & purpose ‘ikigai’
Practising Gratitude and Forgiveness
Explaining our Time perceptions
Developing positive resonance with others
Practising Empathy, compassion for others and self
Letting Positive Emotions broaden and build us
Identifying and using our personal strengths
Identifying and changing our stories
The practical daily habits we can do are:
Breathe
Meditate
Cultivate Compassion for self and others
Managing thinking process
Managing behaviour by observing thoughts (mindfulness)
Stories we tell ourselves
Positive Emotions leading to flourishing
Flow/Focus
Grow towards the light
Here is a video of the last module - worth watching
Here is what MMG members have shared of their experience:
"I've really enjoyed the learning segment which has touched on some of my degree work. Discovering how to put the learning to use as an individual when interacting with the other 'minds' of the group is fun and informative. I walk away every time feeling better about my development."
"An enriching and rewarding experience that stretched my mind, allowed the exploration of topics that I wouldn't come across in my day job, and practical insights of actions to take that I will benefit from now and in the future."
MasterMind Group 2022 opportunity
Take a moment to reflect on the last year. Also look forward to where you want to be, what you want to have experienced and learnt by this time next year. Take control and supercharge your development in 2022 so when you look back you have grown and developed from where you are now. MasterMind Group is open for registration, you can register here
Register here Happy Life Habits MMG 2022
A Funny True Story
A friend recently sent me a WhatsApp message as below:
I saw you in this video! https://youtu.be/I6QwXyE0J9c
It was a video of the motivational and spiritual teacher Gaur Gopal Das titled ‘Watch This If You Need To Say Sorry To Someone’.
I was cautious as having been a victim of Identity fraud and with many scams / fraud on the increase. (I have written about that experience in Identity Theft Fraud: How I lost more than 7 figures...and so could you). I have heard of and experienced messages like this from hacked accounts where the link takes you to a dodgy site on installs malware - hence my guard was up. I asked
Hi who is this?
in order to check if the name was correct, It was, to fully check I called them, it was my friend and I explained the reasoning for my questioning etc. It was lovely to have a quick, impromptu catch up.
I watched the video, and indeed I was in the audience from a wonderful talk I had attended by Gaur Gopal Das a few years ago.
I messaged my friend to thank them for sharing and reminding me of the important message Gaur shared. It complements with the bite sized Positive Grief video I did on Contact and Connection. I’ll add it to the Positive Grief page. I also said:
Ok, I will use this funny reply next time I get message like this, I saw you in this video! https://youtu.be/I6QwXyE0J9c.
"That's not me, I know we have same hairstyle but that's Gaur Gopal Das!"
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Shaileen Shah is a Happiness Coach, Speaker and Trainer. Previously having been in finance technology for the investment banking arm of RBS during the RBS takeover of Natwest, the RBS takeover of ABN Ambro and the financial crisis he has experienced the challenges brought by uncertainty, change and stress. He is certified in The Science of Happiness and shares through Happy Life Habits. Happy Life Habits Positively Impacts Happiness & Well Being Levels by creatively and uniquely combining Personal Development + The Science of Happiness + Spirituality. A business for Good. For more information see HappyLifeHabits.co.uk.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Happy New Year! See the year starts with Happy so be happy. I have recently gone through a year end review using a wonderful tool called the year end compass. I wrote about it last year when I first discovered it. This year I was able to spend a bit more time going through it more thoroughly to reflect on last year and to consider themes for this year. I found the process really enjoyable, useful and contemplative. I spread it over a few days as opposed to doing in one sitting. It allowed me to remember and savour the happy moments, absorb and accept the sadder moments, consider the things learnt and really appreciate the opportunities and moments of joy experienced. With that I gratefully thank all who have supported me on this journey; be it words of encouragement, coming to or sharing about workshops, investing in a happiness journal or two and encouraging others to do so also; creating opportunities for me to share at groups, communities and companies or reading this blog . Thank You.
A few questions from the year end compass:
What is the wisest decision I have made…?
The biggest risk I took …?
The biggest surprise of the year…?
The most important thing I did for others…?
Who are the three people who influenced you the most?
What are the the people you influenced the most?
Plus many more.
Then there are sections to look forward to this this year which included:
This year I will no longer procrastinate any more on…
This year I will be bravest when…
This year will be special for me because…
Take a moment to consider your answers to the questions .
I created a worksheet with some of these questions for the class I teach of 14-15 year olds at Veerayatan SCVP Jain School. It is part of work we are doing in sharing life skills with Habits and The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teenagers being the focus. Will be interesting to see how it goes. Really enjoying researching, think about and developing the content to share.
The 3rd Monday in January is known as Blue Monday, a day when many people feel low or more depressed due to various factors. Last year I wrote about Blue Monday. Again my friends at the Museum of Happiness are hosting a Winter Happiness Festival on Sunday 19th January 2020 to coincide with Blue Monday. I am volunteering there, I have enjoyed the previous 2 festivals.
Speakers include:
Clinical psychologist Dr Shelley Kerr of Balanced Minds, who will share the science of self-compassion and offer practical tools and techniques to give you full permission to be kinder to yourself
Best-selling author and behavioural change expert Shahroo Izadi will share how self-kindness is the key to changing unwanted habits, and how to make meaningful sustained changes in any area of your life
Former contributing editor of Ethical Performance Magazine Adam Woodhall of Extinction Rebellion will motivate and inspire us on how to be kinder to animals and the planet
Founder of I am Circle Nina Bubamara will conclude with a reflective session to connect and reflect more deeply, champion our creative expression and individuality, and set strong intentions to take action for a happier, kinder world.
We’ll close with a loving kindness meditation for the world and some ecstatic dance to shake off what no longer serves you.
This is a fundraiser to help the museum continue to do the fantastic work it does. Details here if you want to get tickets.
On February 14th (Valentines Day) and February 28th, both Fridays I will be sharing workshops on Happier Relationships at Veerayatan SCVP Jain School in NW London. These sessions are free and open to all.
Resources
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About the Author
Shaileen Shah is a Happiness Coach, Speaker and Trainer. Previously having been in finance technology for the investment banking arm of RBS during the RBS takeover of Natwest, the RBS takeover of ABN Ambro and the financial crisis he has experienced the challenges brought by uncertainty, change and stress. He is certified in The Science of Happiness and shares through Happy Life Habits. Happy Life Habits Positively Impacts Happiness & Well Being Levels by creatively and uniquely combining Personal Development + The Science of Happiness + Spirituality. A business for Good; supporting the UNs Sustainable Development Goals. For more information see HappyLifeHabits.co.uk.
START YOUR YEAR END REVIEW NOW
Many people in December do a end of year review to reflect on the past 12 months. They go through their calendar, diary, journal and memories to reflect and capture aspects from the year. There is a great free tool called the year compass that can help with this process available from yearcompass.com/gb. The process can be insightful, heartwarming, provide learning and growth. Instead of waiting till the end of the year to do it why not do one at the end of each month, This has the advantage of making the end of year process quicker and smoother, less chance of missing things and the benefit of getting a good feeling as you savour and reflect at the end of the month and the opportunity to savour each following month.
One way to do it is to copy some of the items from the yearcompass into a word document or google sheet and title with the chosen month then add to it each month end.
Things to consider for inclusion are:
What did I achieve this month?
What were insights I gained?
What did I learn?
What am I grateful for?
What was challenging and how did I deal with it?
Who helped me?
Who did I help?
What could I have done better?
What am I looking forward to this coming month?
The YearCompass breaks it down into a few categories which include:
Personal Life & Family
Belongings
Friends, community
Intellectual
Finances
Work, Studies, Profession
Relaxation, Hobbies, Creativity
Heath, Fitness
Emotional, Spiritual
Bucket List
This is an expansion of the 4 human dimensions of : Physical, Mental, Social/Emotional and Spiritual.
YearCompass gives opportunity to consider the time period in six sentences such as :”The wisest decision I made…”. and six questions such as “What is the best thing you have discovered about yourself?”.
There is much more to the review doc than shared here, however, hopefully this gives you a feel.
Enjoy reviewing and reflecting